Pleasantly Confuzzled

So apparently I should get drunk and belligerent more often... or maybe just belligerent. Regardless, something I did must have tweaked something in him, because where once I had an emotionally unavailable boyfriend with an aversion to seeing me more than twice a week, who had previously been a terribly available boy I was seeing to the point where I became frightened, I now have a somewhat emotionally restrained boyfriend who has suddenly become very sweet and attentive... sortof.

I have seen him for the past three days... he is now not only returning my calls, but initiating exchanges and insinuating wanting to come over. He did a drop by last night for no reason, uninvited. Apart from looking like a total bum who hadn't showered all day, I was super touched. We cuddled... god almighty. He napped on my couch, accepted my offer to stay and work on his essay here instead of leaving for the library, only leaving when he couldn't get anything done. And when he didn't come back (I'd told him I didn't want to hear from him if it was late, as I'd be catching up on much needed sleep) he left an email for me apologizing. This is not the man I was dating a week ago. All I know is that without any silly games, in fact, by going off at him about the stuff that pissed me off, he has come back around somewhat.

Thank god he doesn't read this blog. Now I have to go one-page summarize the book I read last night while he was sleeping on my couch. By the By, I am addicted to www.keyhole.com, which I found on www.metafilter.com, which I am also addicted to. Please check them out in all their time-wasting glory (and keyhole has a 7 day trial offer right now!!)